Men abandon and fail to pay for children constantly. Being on the Pill is akin to saying that youre not interested in having children, so I think its not completely invalid for him to assume she wasnt ready to have children, and to be angry when he ends up being forced into fatherhood. honeybeenicki Fury at the woman he impregnated is misdirected. Should you be frustrated at the situation? Already Tired of the Baby Malarky. Dont be so quick to assume every dude who makes an observation about a real phenomenon is some embittered douche full of vitriol; you may learn something in the process. I feel like life for me hasnt gotten better and Im tired. It isnt pertinent to the discussion. April 10, 2012, 10:34 am. Hell of course express things in a way that maximizes the chance of him not doing any more to hurt the LW than necessary. Susie can do what she wants but he wants nothing to do with it. Thats taking responsibility for your own choices. James Felix April 9, 2012, 3:57 pm. Thank you, Roxy84! I hate a society that even makes this an issue. She may have been sweet and loving throughout the relationship, but when she stopped being her best self or caring about what you think, she became angry, vicious, or revengeful. Thats what youre always nattering about. Men are stupid and do stupid things, but so are women. A female reader, iz07a +, writes (11 March 2010): my exboyfriend and i have been together for 5 yrs. April 9, 2012, 10:03 pm, God, are you REALLY this dense? His baby momma, the woman he claims he doesnt love and doesnt want to be with, is threatening to harm herself and the baby if he doesnt be with her. I wouldnt. thus why I said troll label aside. Or could CG be right, and this is all a hoax? 5. But still. Now I also believe that the LW is exposing herself to STDs not this guy, because she knows that he had unprotected sex with another women, and she still chooses to be with him either way. But I dont see anything in the letter that means he must be. April 9, 2012, 1:35 pm. I agree people who are dysfunctional should not stay together for the sake of the kid it will just make things worse. No one has a condom, Lady says Its cool, Im on the pill and Dude says awesome, I already took my Viagra anyway, cant really run to the store. They bone. any story where a man was forcibly stopping someone from getting an abortion- Yes, that is terrible of the man in question. My takeaway from this is that men should never have sex unless theyre sterile or want to have children, and even then they should never have sex unless they plan to never have sex with a different person in the future because there is absolutely no way to avoid all sexually transmitted diseases aside from the complete lack of sexual contact. She gets to decide whether she keeps the baby or not. | Privacy Policy | Terms of Use | Essence.com Advertising Terms. Agree. Its like people that think women become foster parents for the money. Ever since U.S. never again! If you cant handle the idea that this could happen, then wrap it up, or dont have casual sex. Best of luck. . Im sorry, but sex creates children. The law does, because once the child is here, through no fault of its own, it needs to be supported in order to have a successful life and successful children are in the best interest of all of society. Heh, are you suuuuure you still want to be a professional therapist? But the kid is coming, and if your BF is a decent guy, he *should* be there for his child (if he doesnt come around eventually, you may need to consider if hes someone worth being with). April 10, 2012, 6:52 pm. Dont care to be properly identified? This desicion has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him.
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